Showing posts with label New Year's resolutions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label New Year's resolutions. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

New Year’s resolution: Unplug and connect

My New Year’s resolution for the coming year is to unplug and connect.

I plan to unplug in the sense that I won’t be so constantly wired in to the multiple electronic devices that I own and now consider indispensable. I plan to strike a balance between what is necessary and what is gratuitous. I have to have a cell phone and iPad for work. I don’t have to check them constantly for email or Facebook updates.

Beyond that, there is television. Television has become a ubiquitous presence in our society. Most of us have several in our homes. Restaurants from the smallest fast food chains to the ritziest bistros now usually have televisions blaring. In many cases, we probably don’t know or care what is on. It’s just there as background noise. If we did, we might realize that much of what is on is an affront to our values and is teaching our children things we might just as soon that they not learn. At best we are living vicariously the life that some screenwriter thinks we should. 

Do we really have to be entertained constantly? Are we so afraid of a little silence that we must be wired to gadgets 24/7? Perhaps we’re not just bored. Perhaps we’re afraid to realize how shallow and disconnected our lives have become as we replace real flesh-and-blood relationships with digital ones.

The second part of my resolution is to connect with my family and other people. It doesn’t do my wife and kids much good if I’m with them, but staring at a screen. Likewise, my kids can stare for hours at Youtube videos… if I let them.

The latest Facebook status update is not important. In the grand scheme of things, neither is the latest update on the fiscal cliff, Lindsay Lohan’s (or insert celebrity du jour here) escapades, sports scores or news of pretty much any sort. We have shockingly little control about what goes on in the world around us. If I could control events, Mitt Romney would have won in a landslide.

The biggest measure of control that we have in our lives in within our own families. We control how our kids grow up, largely by the example that we set. If we want to make a difference in the world, this is where we should start.

We can also connect with our families by working less. If we cut the consumption of the trendy digital devices that only serve to disconnect us from reality in the first place, then we need less money. We can cut out the overtime or take a more rewarding job, even if there isn’t a pay increase.

I also want to connect with friends. In the six years that we have lived in our current home, we haven’t made any deep friendships with our neighbors. I want to change that. Part of it is that we live in a small town with all of its family connections and cliques. Part of it is that we haven’t tried all that hard. We’ve had friends who lasted for a season, but we always ended up going separate ways for one reason or another.

In the coming year I want to find good people to befriend. People who share my values and who like to have fun. People with kids. People that we can relax and be ourselves with. People who also want to unplug and enjoy the real world.

In 2013, I’ll be looking at a screen a little less and looking at the real world a little more. That will lead to a bigger impact on the part of the world that is most important to me: my family.

Join me if you dare.

Originally published on Examiner.com:

http://www.examiner.com/article/new-year-s-resolution-unplug-and-connect?cid=db_articles

Sunday, December 30, 2012

New Year’s Resolution for Republicans: Find sensible immigration policy

As we prepare to ring in 2013 and another four years of Barack Obama, Republicans should make a resolution to find an immigration policy that won’t turn off minority voters. Exit polls from the 2012 elections show that immigration was the single worst issue for Republicans. By a more than two-to-one margin, voters believed that illegal immigrants should be offered legal status rather than being deported. This issue undoubtedly influenced Hispanic voters and Asian voters to flock to Barack Obama by 71 and 73 percent respectively.

Obama’s record on immigration is less than stellar, but he proved less frightening than many Republicans. After ignoring the immigration issue for three years, the president issued constitutionally questionable orders to limit deportations. Although this order may have exceeded his authority as president, it proved more popular than Mitt Romney’s promise to veto the DREAM Act. Republican rhetoric on immigration has often been harsh, sometimes bordering on racist, and attempts by states to regulate illegal aliens were easily demonized by the Democrats.

Ironically, the Wall Street Journal pointed out that the state immigration laws are often bad for businesses. In Alabama, where the crackdown on illegal immigration was sold as a way to increase employment for U.S. citizens, there was a shortage of workers in industries that traditionally hired both legal and illegal Mexican immigrants. As Hispanics left the state regardless of their immigration status, employers turned to Haitian and African immigrants because native Alabamans did not pursue the open jobs. In 2011, the Journal reported that many crops were rotting the fields because there were not enough workers to harvest them.

In 2011, Georgia passed an immigration law similar to those of Arizona and Alabama. Implementation of the law was postponed by the courts, but parts of the injunction were lifted earlier this month. The law is intended to encourage illegal immigrants to leave the state, which may lead Georgia industries that depend on immigrant labor to experience difficulties in the coming year.

Republicans should recognize that the immigration problem is one of our own making. The tacit acceptance of illegal immigration for decades has encouraged more migrants to come to the U.S. to work. For years, immigration law was akin to the speed limit. Everybody knew that a lot of people were breaking the law, but it was accepted with a nod and wink. Large sectors of the economy now depend on labor provided by immigrants who entered the country illegally.

Republicans should also realize that these immigrants are coming to the country in pursuit of the American dream as our own ancestors did. Immigrants come to this country because opportunities are not good in their homelands. They come here to provide for their families and to make a better life, just as the English, Irish, Germans, and multitudes of others did since the birth of America.

The dilemma is that the needs of the economy must be squared with the need for national security in the post-9/11 world. The border must be secured to prevent the infiltration of terrorists, but legal immigration should be encouraged. In no case should otherwise law-abiding immigrants be deported simply for entering the country illegally or for something as simple as a traffic infraction. The idea of splitting up families and deporting parents or children is not something that a pro-family party should endorse.

Stories abound of illegal immigrants like Jose Castro, arrested in Hall County, Ga. for fishing without a license and threatened with deportation. In another Georgia case, Jessica Colotl was a college student arrested for driving without a license in Atlanta. After the arrest, Colotl, a Kennesaw State University student, was revealed to have entered the U.S. illegally as a ten-year-old. These cases make Republican immigration hardliners look heartless. Worse, it pushes millions of voters into the arms of President Obama and the Democrats.

The obvious solution is to allow migrants to enter the country on work visas. Illegal immigrants who are here already should be allowed to stay provided that they register with the government and pay a fine. They should not be granted amnesty or citizenship, but the right to work legally is something that both the immigrants and employers need. It would also be a boon to the government by bringing part of the underground economy into the light where it can be taxed and regulated.

It is simply not realistic to expect immigrants already in this country, many of whom already own homes or businesses, to return to their native countries before being able to obtain legal status. In many cases, the illegal aliens came here at such a young age that they have no real connection to their so-called homelands and don’t even speak the language there. A solution that is so draconian as to be unworkable is not a solution at all. If the solution is too harsh, illegal immigrants will simply remain in the shadows.

It should be easier for immigrants to come to the U.S. legally. It has long been noted that the U.S. is suffering a “brain drain” of university students who come to the U.S. to study but are unable to stay here to work. These students with science, technology, engineering and math (STEM) degrees then go abroad to work for competitors of U.S. companies. This is causing a shortage of technical workers in the U.S. Foreign STEM graduates don’t take jobs from Americans because very few Americans pursue these types of degrees.

If it weren’t for the immigration controversy, Republicans might get more votes from minority voters as well. Many immigrants tend to be socially conservative. According to a Pew poll, foreign born Hispanics tend to be much more conservative than their U.S. born counterparts. Many Hispanics also tend to be pro-life and strongly oppose same-sex marriage. They also tend to be very religious and religious voters tend to favor the GOP. Likewise, Asian voters have many reasons to lean Republican as well, but have not done so in recent elections.

It is extremely likely that the next four years of Barack Obama will prove as disastrous for immigrants and minorities as they will for the rest of the population. The 2012 election should underscore the fact that many people need more than an economic reason to cast a ballot for a Republican. They need to feel that they aren’t hated.

Republicans can reach out to the immigrant and minority communities by taking the initiative on immigration reform. Immigration languished on President Obama’s backburner for more than three years until he needed Hispanic votes for the election. He has very little credibility on the issue, but Republicans have even less. They might be able to change that by promoting common sense reforms that work for both immigrants and businesses.

Originally published on Examiner.com:

http://www.examiner.com/article/resolution-for-republicans-find-sensible-immigration-policy?cid=db_articles